Id like to know how its possible to solve this problem: My domain name has an e-mail address that is being forged and used by a spammer, and I get an incredible amount of bounced emails to the point to bring down a Dual-Xeon with 4GB of RAM. This e-mail account has been discontinued and e-mail sent to non-existent accounts is set to be thrown away. The average server load goes through the roof in a few seconds as soon as I point the MX entries to the server. I dont have the money to set up a load-balanced system. What could I do to host this domain name and use e-mail, only allowing emails to existing email accounts? :confused:
Thanks.